Real Spring Fever...sort of :?

I've always heard of Spring Fever, but living the South it's pretty much a year round thing. Since I've moved to Seattle I stood by the fact in didn't rain much here....UNTIL...the sun really came out! This city is absolutely amazing and the mountains are out and well so now are my sundresses, and with that comes the twins! I've been spending the past few weeks doing somewhat of a personal detox in preparation for the impending summer. The most important issue I've been dealing with is finally being secure single....I'm not seeing this ending for awhile. I'm not trying to be a kermudgen but this has become my reality because I refuse to settle! I also retract my previous submission about not hiding my feelings. I will now only give one attempt and if it fails then that is it! I held on to a certain someone way too long! Ok...so back to the sundresses! I will say these boys in Seattle aren't use to sundresses, I actually got cat called 3 times in the past week. As annoying as that is, it does bring an awkward smile to my face. I'm thinking I should invest in more! I'm pretty excited to see what the next few months hold...I'm in my element with this sun which causes a heightened about of happiness and confidence in myself. Stay Tuned!Oh and I've gone down a size in the past few weeks...Watch out WA I'm single and happy about it!

Why can't we be friends?

I have a curse, the curse of being friendly. I am happy to report that I pretty much get along with everyone, and try to find mutual grounds with people I encounter and especially those that are in the same circle of friends I have. I especially get along really well with men. I think most women are this way, for whatever reason it's more comfortable. This has somehow back fired. When I befriend a man in my life that I want to keep in that status, I make it very clear on why they are in that position. It's normally because they aren't my type so I make a point to describe my type so their feelings aren't hurt. I have several male friends and they are "all good" with being just friends. However, last night I was put in a situation that was very awkward. I was invited to hang out with a new friend (we both agreed it was just as friends), as the night progressed he started becoming honest with his feelings. I made it clear again, that I just wasn't feeling the same. Then horror...He tried to kiss me. We've been friends for a little over a month now and I had to straight up reject, deny the dude. Now it's all awkward. I must say that it felt good to stand my ground, and I would hope that he respected me more for not...but I feel like I hurt his feelings. That's one thing I'm not ok with but I have nothing to apologize for. So the ones I don't want to be "just friends" with aren't digging and the ones I want to be "just friends" are. This dating thing gets more confusing everyday and I've been at it for almost a year.

Welcome Ladies and Frogs to my Single Lady Blog!

29 SWF! Yup thats right..not a rare breed!I've agreed to a bet to just date for at least the next 6 months. Doesn't seem that long, but when I sat back to think about it...I've never been single for 6 months since the age of 16! Long Relationships, to Marriage, to another Long Relationship. So if I can do it, I get a day at a spa and winery in Asheville, NC or If I can't my best friend does. I can't loose! In an effort to keep me on track we've decided keeping a humorous account of me dating is the best way to go. So Ladies and Frogs if you dare to read...It's Time for Me to Kiss Some Frogs in an effort to see if one will get crowned!