Why can't we be friends?

I have a curse, the curse of being friendly. I am happy to report that I pretty much get along with everyone, and try to find mutual grounds with people I encounter and especially those that are in the same circle of friends I have. I especially get along really well with men. I think most women are this way, for whatever reason it's more comfortable. This has somehow back fired. When I befriend a man in my life that I want to keep in that status, I make it very clear on why they are in that position. It's normally because they aren't my type so I make a point to describe my type so their feelings aren't hurt. I have several male friends and they are "all good" with being just friends. However, last night I was put in a situation that was very awkward. I was invited to hang out with a new friend (we both agreed it was just as friends), as the night progressed he started becoming honest with his feelings. I made it clear again, that I just wasn't feeling the same. Then horror...He tried to kiss me. We've been friends for a little over a month now and I had to straight up reject, deny the dude. Now it's all awkward. I must say that it felt good to stand my ground, and I would hope that he respected me more for not...but I feel like I hurt his feelings. That's one thing I'm not ok with but I have nothing to apologize for. So the ones I don't want to be "just friends" with aren't digging and the ones I want to be "just friends" are. This dating thing gets more confusing everyday and I've been at it for almost a year.

No Text...NEXT!

Ok....so guys are just flakes! Not even frosted! Who know what went wrong, but I'm sure if I were to ask I'd get "it's not you, it's me". So, I've given up on "new guy A" (i figure for the sake of all four of my followers coding them will help keep track) or at least at this point at 12:09 AM! The last text was Tuesday afternoon that he couldn't wait to see me, nothing today/Wednesday, and still no plans. Really, I just don't understand Men, and they say we're confusing! I'm thinking about maybe going back to not dating or just doing it for a free dinner, hell I'm new in this town and a girls gotta eat! I know that sounds bad, but I don't feel bad about saying it or entertaining it in my mind seriously!